Monday, November 24, 2014

Dedication in Action

Many Agape staff members work behind the scenes during back-to-back weekend hours to help train new volunteers.  Most of these folks work a full week, and then join us at the office on the weekend to provide required hospice education to our unpaid employees.  

This dedicated group includes Debra Goodstein, Karrie Filios, Kellie Berry, Kelly Bastian and Eve Brogan.  In fact, I don’t believe that Debra, Karrie nor Kelly has missed a volunteer training in many years!  

This past Sunday, we honored our regular weekend and night crew with a pancake breakfast. Aaron C, Kelly B, Scott P, Heather B, Mary F, Leslie A and Claire N all got up with the roosters to come and say an in-person thank you to these weekend and night warriors, working 24/7 to make certain Agape is there when patients and family need us.  

This high level of dedication and care is one of the reasons we provide the best hospice care in the Denver Metro area!  Thank you all.  

Beth  Kelley
Volunteer Services Manager

Tuesday, November 11, 2014

Veterans Serving Veterans


Gary Gustin served in the US Army during the Vietnam era and started as an Agape Twilight Brigade volunteer just one year ago. In that short time he has made 75 patient visits and an indelible mark on many lives.

Deborah is the daughter of an Agape patient, and she can’t say enough about the ways in which Gary served her father and their family during her dad’s last months. She describes her father as a 6’ 2” tall drink of water, a 91-year-old Army vet who had always been a big, capable guy.

Gary would visit, bringing his unassuming and respectful presence, and over time, the two men forged a friendship.

“The way he loved my dad was remarkable,” Deborah says. “It was amazing to see Daddy revered at that stage in his life.”

She notes that Gary always seemed to know when to stay and when to go.  His presence over the weekends meant that Deborah and her family could take off to go camping and know their dad not only had company, but a person who truly cared for him.

For Gary’s part, he feels honored that families allow him into their lives during this sacred time. He was touched by the way Deborah’s family treated him as one of their own. Gary notes his shock and sadness at encountering a good number of patients who don’t have friends or family, who face the last phase of their lives on their own.

In keeping with the Twilight Brigade motto that no veteran should die alone, Gary has stepped in with his caring presence and the understanding of a fellow service man.


Deborah says that the day her dad died, this past July, the room was wall-to-wall people, including Gary. He attended the memorial service, another gesture that touched Deborah and her family, paying his final respects to a fellow veteran and friend.